Most people covet that "happily ever after" outcome in life. It's human nature to crave love. Many people spend their entire lifetime (cue Kelly Clarkson's first single) looking for that love. It gets harder the older you get.
With it being the digital age, and with the pandemic closing down bars and restaurants, people have been flocking in droves to online dating websites. Again, it's human nature to crave love, and it's human nature to desire someone in our lives.
I decided to join a dating site, and I was immediately messaged by A LOT of men. I didn't put a lot of info on my profile. In fact, all I had on there were the basics, and a very witty intro: "Looking for someone to pluck a Banjo while I flick my nipples. No weirdos please." I have a warped personality and I wanted to stand out, LOL (btw, I'm not actually into that. I was just being funny)!
Anyway, I received a lot of unappealing messages that I'd like to share with you. Normally, I would blot out the name to protect the innocent. As you will see, NONE of these guys are innocent. Sorry (you are lucky that I cropped your location out).
Guys, if you are genuine about finding true love, there are a few things you need to know:
If you try too hard, we will be completely turned off. If you don't try enough, we will continue looking. If you are YOURSELF, we will talk to you. There is no need to open with overtly sexual comments. That shit can wait until we get to know you better. You want to hit our G-spots so badly? Get to know us. Spend time with us. Learn about our likes and dislikes. Touch our brain and our heart. THEN, you can hit that G spot.
Also, please don't pressure us into meeting you right away. We want to get to know you before we meet you. If you can't respect that, then you can fuck off.
I may have violated a bunch of girl codes in this post, but IDGAF. I just want to see a better quality of guys out there. While I'm not actively looking (I made my dating profile just so I could get some blog post ideas), I hope that I will be able to find a decent person someday. If I don't find anyone, I'm secure with that. I'm secure with myself to be okay with any outcome in life.
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Who better to give relationship/dating advice than a hopeless single? Just because a person is single, it doesn't mean they don't observe. It helps to have an outsider's perspective, and on this page, you will find my Unfiltered Perspective on dating (LGBTQ+ friendly).