It's the age old question: "Does (wallet) size matter?"
When some women see a potential partner with a lot of money, they see someone who is hard-working and driven. That's a quality they find more appealing than the Benjamin's in his back pocket.
Other women say that they would never date a broke guy because they don't want to be buying a scrub's dinner. Similar women also state that they want a guy that can financially take care of them.
Over the weekend, a friend of mine posted a very good question: Could you date someone who did not have a lot of money? He said that women would never date a man who had no money. He said that in this society, if you fall on hard times and fuck up on money, you need to bounce back fast in order to keep your woman. He said that a woman's friends will be in her head, telling her to leave you.
A few women spoke out against my friend's comment, saying: "As long as the guy works hard, she has no problem making more money. As long as he isn't a deadbeat."
Another woman said: "If a lady can hold her own and a dude treats her right, why does she need his money?"
Then, my friend asked: "What if the man wanted to be house husband and make a home for his wife and kids?"
The same women said that it was okay in their eyes, as long as the bills are able to be paid with one income.
Here's how I feel:
It's 2020 and everyone is broke. It would be foolish to date someone for their money right now. Am I right?
I used to be friends with a female that dated men and women for their cars. Cars made her wet in special places. She likes being spoiled by those she dates.
As for me, I don't care what kind of car he drives, as long as it isn't stolen, and he obeys all the laws of the road.
I've dated rich partners, poor partners, and those in between. I once dated a guy whose family is worth $65 million. That would be a girl's dream, right? Well, it wasn't mine. That guy was a daily drunk, always complained about his family, lived in the past, and went on and on about his rich white guy problems. No amount of money in the world would make me stay with him.
I ran with this one dude who didn't work a whole lot. He smoked weed, and had no ambition. His only redeeming quality is he was good at 'eating out'...that was until he told me he learned how to eat pussy from PornHub. Guys, if you learned how to eat pussy and have sex from watching excessive amounts of porn, please keep that to yourself. That shit is NOT a turn on. Your money will NOT get you out of that one.
I dated a female who was a shift leader at a pharmacy. She made decent money and she paid for most things. However, she was hung up on her ex girlfriend. Her money did not make me stay.
Money does not mean a thing to me. Your drive, ambition, goals, heart, spirit, and soul mean everything to me. If you have to put your money dick on the table in order to impress me, you are not in my league, and you aren't ready for a woman like me.
Put away your wallet and show me who the fuck you are.
Who better to give relationship/dating advice than a hopeless single? Just because a person is single, it doesn't mean they don't observe. It helps to have an outsider's perspective, and on this page, you will find my Unfiltered Perspective on dating (LGBTQ+ friendly).