19 years ago today, America (and the world) was hit by tragedy. Extremist group al-Queda hijacked 4 passenger airplanes, 2 were flown into the World Trade Center, 1 crashed into the Pentagon, and 1 crashed in PA (the hijackers were trying to fly it to DC, but the passengers thwarted that attempt and the plane crashed into a field).
Within an hour and 42 minutes, the World Trade Center was no more. 25,000 people were injured, and 2,977 people were killed.
I remember that day vividly. I was a freshman in college, and on my own for the first time in my life. The school was holding a job fair that day, and I woke up early to check it out. The job fair was being held in a room next to the cafe. When I walked in, people were glued to the TV. The entire feel of the room was very off. I looked at the TV and saw the 2nd plane hit the towers. Live. Words cannot describe what I was feeling when I saw that. I was a mix of horrified, sick, angry, disbelief, etc. All of us had tears in our eyes. None of us could believe what the fuck was happening. It felt like everything stopped. Even the newscasters on TV were freaked out. After several minutes in a daze, I grabbed my flip phone and walked out of the building to call family. I couldn't get through to anyone. I was shaking while I walked to my dorm. Everyone I encountered was so upset and terrified. As I walked to my dorm, I saw 15-20 cars leaving campus, all with NY license plates. When I got inside my room, I turned on the news and learned that the borders to NY were closed. I kept trying to contact family and all attempts failed. My aunt lived in NY at the time and she had just had a baby 4 days before the attacks happened. I was so worried for her, my baby cousin, and my uncle.
I don't remember much about what happened later that day. Time had stopped and I was just terrified to be anywhere. This was the first time I was afraid of the world around me.
A few days later, my school planted a Unity Pole in the center of campus. I was at the ceremony and it was really beautiful to see all of us come together. It seemed like our entire country was coming together to try and process everything that happened. I was very proud to be an American during this time.
All of us coming together, working together, uplifting one another, THAT is the true spirit of America. It's sad we can't be like that in 2020. We'd probably be in a much better place if we weren't so divided. If we could be just as connected as we were back then, we would get through anything.
One way we can honor those who died on 9/11 is to come together in our current circumstances. The coronavirus has killed nearly 200,000 of our American brothers and sisters. We can't fight each other anymore. We need to find our American spirit again.
Jillian Michaels is the latest "celebrity" to fall victim to coronavirus. The once dubbed "Toughest trainer in America" contracted the virus after working out at the gym.
She revealed the diagnosis on Fox Business:
"If you are afraid of COVID, you should not go to the gym. And I actually am a person who let my guard down, I haven't even spoken about this publicly really, and a very close friend of mine gave me COVID several weeks ago. I'm fortunate to have gone into it being healthy and I was able to get on the other side of it pretty quick, but not everybody is lucky, as we all know. All I can tell you is if you are afraid of getting COVID, a public gym is probably a place where you will get it."
Michaels revealed she let her guard down for an hour. She said her friend had no idea that she had Covid.
Jillian Michaels has made a full recovery, and is back to promoting her fitness app.
In the comments section on HuffPost's story about Michaels, many have said that she is saying "avoid gyms" in order to gain more customers for her app. At this point, I wouldn't be surprised if that is her angle. She lost my respect when she started shaming people for being overweight (don't forget where you came from, babygirl. You were overweight once yourself!). I spent the majority of my life morbidly obese. I'm a size 4/6 right now. I would be a hypocrite if I shamed someone for their weight. It's bad karma.
Anyways, I'm glad she's doing better. I still don't like her as a person.
Humans, by nature, are not big fans of change. When things change, a few things happen: we bitch, we moan, and we carry on like petulant children. On the flip side of that, we hate when our lives don't get better. Humans have some serious problems!
Now, if you decide to make changes that will alter your life in a positive way, not everyone is on board. How friggin insane is that?!
You decide to lose weight, people will gripe that you're "losing too much weight" and you "looked better before." People will complain if you tell them you're going to therapy, or a 12 step program. People will respond with "you're not crazy, you don't need a shrink," or "you don't have a drinking/drug problem. It's the covid era. Life is easier when intoxicated."
You just can't win. What you CAN do is make healthy choices for you, and fuck what everyone else thinks.
I recently went through a process of change. I had my heart broken, and I was betrayed by several friends. I gained weight, and I was just plain miserable. No one knew. After all the drama went down, I was physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally drained. I spent 48 hours in a daze, and the rest of that week trying to regroup. The following week, I worked on my physical strength (working out and eating right), and my emotional/mental/spiritual strength. I was finding a strength that I never knew I had, and for the first time ever, my self-esteem was increasing. I began to find myself and I began to love myself.
Not everyone has liked the changes I have been going through. I've had friends who have questioned my sanity. No one is used to me having self-esteem. My role has always been one where I've been the outcast, misunderstood, and broken friend. Always single, never going from one guy to the next. I've also been known as the DUFF (designated ugly fat friend). I accepted that role for the longest time...until now.
For the first time ever, I'm standing on top of the world, and breathing in happiness, peace, love, and strength.
People can talk all they want about me making changes in my life, but I'm doing what's right for me, and what's right for my family. When I'm happy and at peace, my son is happy and at peace. His well-being means as much to me as my own well-being.
Don't ever apologize for making yourself a priority. Don't apologize for your 'glow up.' This is your time to friggin shine. The right people will be along for the ride.
Don't give up on you and your happiness. You will regret it if you do. Get you some of YOU!
2020 has been a pretty fucked up year. We have been dealing with coronavirus, new rules, the craziest weather ever, earthquakes, and fires. We've dealt with personal issues as well.
Despite all the hell going on around us, some of the most well-known celebrities have been using 2020 as their 'glow up' year. For those not familiar with the term 'glow up,' it basically means someone went through a significant transformation inside and out.
Everyone looks amazing and happy!
NOTE: I have been working on the idea of this article for a few days now, and I wanted to use Adele as my main photo. However, due to her recent controversy, I decided against it. I don't want to take away the hard work Adele has done to get her hot body. Sadly, I think she crossed a line with her bikini top and hair (you're better than this, babe!).
Check out the INSANE 'before and after' pics below (none of the pics are mine)!