Bachelor Nation: Clare Crawley "crushed" over split with Dale Moss, which is understandable because they dated for 5 minutes.
"I think I just met my husband," muttered a lovestruck Clare as she met Dale for the first time. From that point on, no other male contestant on "The Bachelorette" existed. She chose her man, he proposed, and they ended the season quickly. They thought their love would last forever. Sadly, this love came down in flames, as every whirlwind romance does.
On Thursday, Clare released a statement, saying that the "mutual" statement that was released about their breakup was news to her. The breakup, however, is real.
"Genuinely invested with all of my heart."
Obviously you were invested with your whole heart, because you forgot to take your brain and conscience with you. Anyone who listens to all three would never put themselves in a situation that ends so embarassingly. You may want to portray yourself as a "hopeless romantic," but in the end you are nothing but hopeless. If you want to be committed to love, love your damn self first. Over 99% of females don't love themselves completely. They half-ass it. A woman who completely loves themselves is fine with any outcome. They are fine if they end up alone for the rest of their lives. They are fine if they end up with someone. A woman who truly loves herself doesn't have romance as their end game. Their end game consists of staying true to themselves, staying in love and respect with themselves, and maintaining inner peace! Clare doesn't have that. She romanticizes every single thing, and look where it's gotten her. She's miserable. She has a broken heart.
She needs to gain some self-respect and self-worth.
I don't believe she was in love with Dale. She was in lust at most. She saw a man who was tall, dark, and handsome (hot dayum he fine). He had a kind smile and kind eyes. She attached herself. She romanticized the moment. She thought if she did that, she could get what she wanted, which was a ring and a husband.
Ladies, don't be like Clare. Don't be so thirsty and obsessed with romantic love. It's not important in life. If you never want your heart broken again, love yourself from the top of your head, to the tips of your toes. Love yourself faithfully. If someone does come along, and encourages your growth, pursue that. Pay attention to spiritual vibes from that person. If your spiritual vibe matches that person's spiritual vibe, you may be in the midst of your life partner.
I don't want to bash Clare, I just hate seeing such a beautiful woman making poor decisions in life. I hope she is able to grow from this and love herself. She needs to give herself the final rose and commit to herself before she commits to someone else. No one can give you what you need, except for you. Show up for your damn self, Clare.
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