As I peruse the comments section of every social media site, I am noticing countless hopeless romantics fervently manifesting their twin flame into union with them. When you approach them and tell them that union may never happen, they flip their shit on you. What are you supposed to do, allow a human being to drown in their desperation for union?
We could, because we all have shit going on in our lives. We have our own journeys to focus on. If we did that, it would defeat the purpose of all of us collectively raising the vibration of this planet. We have to be honest with people who are just starting their twin flame journey. There are others who are sympathizers of the journey and want to have their own twin flame journey. Look, you can WANT to be on this journey, but if you don't have a twin flame, you are not on the journey with us. Twin flames are extremely rare. Not everyone has one. Everyone has a soulmate, and those are very strong connections. A twin flame is the ultimate connection, created by God and the universe. Your twin flame is your divine counterpart. 

I digress. We all want to achieve union with our twin flame. One of the most sobering lessons on this journey is understanding and making peace with the fact that it may not happen. This can be for a number of reasons, including you not putting in all the work to ascend to a higher version of yourself, or it could be your twin who isn't putting in the work. Inner union is the work that we need to be focused on. 

Inner Work:
The most important aspect of the twin flame journey is the inner union. Yes, there is someone out there who has a part of our soul, but we are still whole on our own. We all have divine masculine and divine feminine within us. We need to have both sides within us come together in union. The journey to our 5D selves is what we need to work on. We need to heal our traumas. From what I understand, I know that many twin flames come from not-so-good beginnings, where there are mother wounds and father wounds. Our twins mirror those wounds, not to hurt us. It's to help us get started on our journey so we can heal on our own. You also need to work on loving yourself.
I have mother wounds, and a father wound. My twin triggered these wounds, and it caused me to start my journey. I got sick and tired of being weighed down by shit that happened to me when I was younger. While I credit my twin for holding a mirror up to my wounds, I will not credit them for my journey. This is my journey. I will be grateful for my twin, holding that mirror up. I know I will achieve union within myself. That is a given. When I had to think about the possibility that I may never see my twin again, it was painful. Thinking about the fact that I may never see the person I love most in this world, besides my child, is hard. I decided that whenever I would get sad, I would redirect myself and remember my mission. I am on a healing journey to oneness with myself. I am ending cycles, ending generational curses, and becoming who I am meant to become. I want this journey to self-oneness more than I want union with my twin flame. Facts! Don't get me wrong, if I end up being one of the twins who achieves union with my twin, I will be excited and forever grateful. 

Like I said, union may never happen. If you're reading this, I have a few final thoughts for you:

1. Please do not listen to the tarot card readers online who are feeding your delulus. When they don't show your cards, have shifty eyes, or they talk about how much their readings cost, they are scammers. This is probably 98% of all readers online. 
2. If they are all excited because their cards show that you will have union, don't believe them. They are feeding your delulus. I have seen so many readers who will say, "type 1111 to claim, etc," and "I can't make this up." The typing of whatever in the comments is to boost them on the site so they make more money. They don't give a shit about you or your journey. They just want money. When they say, "I can't make this up," they are INDEED making this up. They want you hyped and energized. They want you to get all excited so that you book a reading with them. I've priced a lot of these tarot readers and psychics. They are outrageously overpriced. 

Please please please do not get yourself scammed out of your mental health and hard-earned money. I know you are desperate to find out if you will achieve union with your person. No psychic can tell you that. It is up to you and your journey, and your twin's journey. If they aren't putting in the true work (and you are), you WILL NOT achieve union. If you are not putting in the true work, and they are, you WILL NOT achieve union. If you BOTH put in the true work, you have a good chance of entering union in the 3D. It is up to you and your twin. Those garbage psychics and tarot readers cannot tell you anything about your future with your twin. You and your twin hold the key. 
You need to come to terms with the fact that you will not achieve union in the 3D. That doesn't mean that you won't be forever connected. You will always be connected to your twin. You will always love your twin, and they will always love you. 

Put in the work for yourself. You are your own divine counterpart. You owe it to yourself to put in the work. The work is hard, but it is worth it in the end. Nothing beats achieving inner peace and ultimate self-love. Your self-love, and the love you will have for others around you, will raise the frequency of this planet. 

Twin flame is a term that has become widely used in pop culture. Many think that they have a twin flame, due to the intense chemistry they may have with the other person. However, the twin flame journey is much more and much deeper than that. So, what is a twin flame?
According to MindBodyGreen, a twin flame is defined as being: A twin flame is an intense soul connection with someone thought to be a person's other half, sometimes called a "mirror soul." It's based on the idea that sometimes one soul gets split into two bodies. 
Twin flames heal one another. They show you what needs to be healed. The journey is less about a romantic "happily ever after," and more about finding love and healing within yourself. It's about raising your vibration higher so that you can make a difference on this planet. Twins are on this planet to raise the vibration of the planet with spiritual love and healing. 

Meeting your Twin Flame
Gurrrrlll, when you meet your twin flame, there are hella sparks! It's a wildfire! Hotter than the sun! There is a familiarity with them. You feel like your absolute self with them. The romance is intense, the intimacy is hot, and love is instant. Here's the thing, though. They will hold a spiritual mirror up to you and show you the parts of you that aren't healed. They are your soul. They know! So, if you go into something with your twin, and they decide that they aren't ready, or if they are turning to alcohol to deal with the intense connection, they haven't ascended yet.

If this triggers you, then the separation is the perfect time to do some shadow work and heal the parts of you that have addiction and abandonment trauma. You may go through various cycles with them through the years and have separation after separation. In order to see if twin flame union is meant for you in this lifetime, you need to do the work on yourself FOR YOURSELF. A union with your twin flame isn't guaranteed, and it's not even the point of the journey. It's YOUR journey. 
What you need to know is, if your spirit guides see that you are putting in the work, and your twin is not putting in the work, they will send someone else to be your mate. Twins have lifetimes together, and you will keep meeting your twin flame until you achieve union. 

My twin flame journey
I met my twin in 2022 on a dating app. I knew in an instant that this was my person. I didn't know about twin flames at this time, but when I researched how I felt about them, the search came up with "twin flames." I asked a friend of mine who reads tarot (by the way, she is so accurate about everything. Look up Brand Shamans. I've known this woman since 2010. She's super nice) if this person was my twin, and she said 'yes.' 
My twin and I met in person at a park on the coast, and it felt so amazing! My twin kissed me and it was the greatest first kiss of my life, and I knew then I wanted it to be my last first kiss. I started to fall hard for my twin with how they made me laugh. I've never laughed like that before, and I haven't since. I felt alive around my twin. I felt like I was floating and glowing. Kissing my twin felt like two stars being forced together, creating a beautiful white light that enveloped us. It was a spiritual and magical experience. I was happy, I found my person. Unfortunately, things fell apart a few weeks after that. An addiction my twin had resurfaced, and it was a trigger for me because my mom is an addict. My twin blamed me for the relapse. It got ugly! I stopped talking to my twin for months, and I dated someone else for a few months. 

My twin resurfaced the following summer, and they expressed remorse for how they treated me. We made plans to hang out on July 4th, and I was ghosted. I was hurt, and I felt abandonment trauma creep in (I had abandonment trauma due to an abusive and neglectful childhood). I went into my old patterns and began dating someone else a few weeks later. I stayed in this karmic relationship for almost 2 years. My karmic and I were on and off during those two years, and we were engaged for a period of time. 
During one of the off times with my karmic, I was back in contact with my twin. My twin and I made plans in December to hang out, and I drove to see them. We were intimate, and then 5 minutes later, they rejected me. I was still naked when they rejected me. They said we weren't meant to be and I wasn't the one for them (funny thing is, they were all over me, kissing me, and singing me love songs 2 hours beforehand). The feeling I had at that moment was one of the worst feelings I ever had. It made me feel pain I haven't felt since childhood. I blacked out. I grabbed my clothes, feeling so ashamed, and I ran out of there while getting dressed. I cried the entire ride home. We talked a few days afterward, and my twin informed me that they didn't mean it, and that they were taking sips of alcohol in order to feel comfortable around me. It wasn't long after when I blocked my twin. A few weeks later, I got back together with my karmic, and we stayed together until the beginning of March of this year. I ended it permanently. 

Since ending things with the karmic, and distancing myself from my twin, I have embarked on a huge wellness and spiritual journey. I had other triggers in my life that prompted me to want to change things (my uncle committed suicide, gunshot to the head, on April 5 (his 10 year old son found his body), I was laid off from my job, and I just felt myself emotionally crumbling. My uncle's suicide was triggering because I used to be suicidal, and the aftermath of his suicide ripped my stepmother's family apart. My stepmother's mom blamed my uncle's wife in front of the children, and my stepmother's mother said that my stepmother deserved to be raped decades ago (this triggered me because I was raped when I was 15). With how abusive my childhood was, and I have diagnosed PTSD from it, I wanted badly to heal my wounds. I decided to go inward and begin healing for the first time ever.

Being a spiritual twin is something I am grateful for, and I know it's going to make my healing journey even more powerful and important. I started trauma therapy with an amazing therapist, and I am doing shadow work at home. I am connecting more to nature by doing grounding work. I started taking herbal supplements to help with my stress so I can see things from a clearer perspective. I also have tea times, when I relax with a cup of tea (as of this writing, I am drinking jasmine green tea). In terms of teas, I highly recommend blueberry sage tea, and honey lavender tea. 
My journey is mine, and I don't expect God and spirit guides to bless me with my twin. I need to be okay on my own, in the event that I don't enter into union with my twin. I will always love my twin, and I want my twin to achieve abundance and happiness in their life, even if means we are physically separated in this lifetime.

The twin flame journey is not about achieving physical union with your twin. You need to understand that the physical union MAY NOT HAPPEN. This journey is about healing and self-love. People really need to stop screaming on social media for their twin to come into their lives. The twin flame journey is about energy. You are energetically connected to your twin. If you are sending out that type of energy, your twin is going to run farther away from you. You need to go within and ask yourself why are you so thirsty for your twin to come into your life? Why is it so important to you? Why do you feel like you're not good enough for your own attention? POUR. INTO. YOUR. OWN. CUP! Love yourself first. Show devotion to yourself! Heal your inner traumas! Do it for you! When you raise your vibration and you start healing yourself, your twin will feel that. They could start working on themselves. Again, this doesn't mean you will enter physical union in this life. Physical union doesn't happen for every twin, because one twin may not be ready in this lifetime. You cannot force them. 

Will I achieve union with my twin?
It's not up to me. I'm grateful for the few beautiful moments that I had with my twin. They were the most amazing romantic moments of my life. I will look back at the good memories fondly. Not many people get to experience that feeling of being around your spiritual twin, a person that God made for you. I consider myself blessed and lucky for my experience. 

We are all gearing up for the highly anticipated solar eclipse. With millions in the total coverage zone, glasses are flying off the shelves, and people are looking for the perfect spot to view this incredible event. While we are physically preparing for the solar eclipse, there are those who are curious as to how this eclipse will impact them spiritually. 
Here is a breakdown on what you may see on and around April 8th:

Aries (March 21 - April 19):
Solar eclipses may bring opportunities for self-discovery and personal transformation for Aries individuals. They may feel inspired to take bold actions or make significant changes in their lives, particularly in areas related to their identity and self-expression.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20):
Taurus individuals may experience shifts in their material possessions, finances, or sense of security during solar eclipses. It's a time to reassess their values and priorities, as well as to cultivate a greater sense of abundance and stability.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20):
Solar eclipses could impact Gemini individuals in the realm of communication, learning, and social connections. They may find themselves drawn to new ideas, experiences, or relationships that expand their horizons and stimulate their curiosity.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22):
Solar eclipses may prompt Cancer individuals to focus on their emotional well-being, family dynamics, and home life. It's a time for introspection and healing, as well as for nurturing their closest relationships and creating a sense of sanctuary.

Leo (July 23 - August 22):
Leos may feel a surge of creative inspiration and personal empowerment during solar eclipses. It's an auspicious time for pursuing their passions, asserting themselves in their endeavors, and embracing opportunities for self-expression and leadership.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22):
Solar eclipses may prompt Virgo individuals to reassess their habits, routines, and health practices. It's a time for self-improvement and personal growth, as well as for refining their skills and pursuing their goals with greater precision and dedication.

Libra (September 23 - October 22):
Libras may experience shifts in their relationships, partnerships, and sense of balance during solar eclipses. It's a time for evaluating the dynamics of their connections, seeking harmony and fairness, and making decisions that align with their values.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21):
Solar eclipses could bring opportunities for deep transformation and empowerment for Scorpio individuals. It's a time for delving into their subconscious, releasing old patterns or attachments, and embracing their inner strength and resilience.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21):
Sagittarians may feel a call to explore new horizons, expand their worldview, and pursue their long-term goals during solar eclipses. It's a time for adventure, growth, and embracing opportunities that broaden their perspectives and deepen their understanding.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19):
Solar eclipses may prompt Capricorns to focus on their career, ambitions, and sense of responsibility. It's a time for setting ambitious goals, taking calculated risks, and stepping into leadership roles with confidence and determination.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18):
Aquarians may experience shifts in their social networks, community involvement, and humanitarian efforts during solar eclipses. It's a time for connecting with like-minded individuals, advocating for causes they believe in, and fostering innovation and progress.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20):
Solar eclipses could impact Pisces individuals in the realm of spirituality, intuition, and personal growth. It's a time for deepening their connection to their inner wisdom, exploring mystical or metaphysical interests, and embracing their compassionate and empathic nature.

Be safe while viewing the solar eclipse. While there won't be another one for another 20 years, it isn't worth risking your eyesight to experience it. Be sure to have the proper viewing material. Enjoy the event!

Spirituality is a deeply personal aspect of our lives. There are thousands of beliefs out there, and people have their reasons for believing in what they believe. Spiritual faith brings a tremendous comfort to those who have been through a lot. 
It becomes problematic, however, when the ego gets in the way. There are people out there that will brag about how far they are in their spiritual journey and do it in a way that makes you feel small. 

A person's spiritual journey is sacred, and there are many reasons why you should extend grace to others when sharing your story, and not brag about where you are in your journey:

1. Humility: Many spiritual traditions emphasize the importance of humility and modesty. Bragging about one's spirituality can be seen as contradictory to these values.
2. Authenticity: True spirituality often involves inner growth, self-reflection, and genuine connection with something greater than oneself. Bragging about spirituality may come across as insincere or inauthentic, undermining the genuine spiritual journey.
3. Comparison and Judgment: When someone brags about their spirituality, it can inadvertently lead to comparison and judgment among others. This can create a sense of superiority or inferiority, which is counterproductive to the principles of spirituality that often promote inclusivity and acceptance.
4. Ego Reinforcement: Bragging about spirituality can feed into the ego, reinforcing a sense of self-importance or superiority over others. This can detract from the humility and selflessness often associated with spiritual growth.
5. Misinterpretation: Others may misinterpret bragging about spirituality as a form of seeking attention or validation, rather than genuine spiritual insight or growth. This can lead to skepticism or distrust regarding the individual's intentions.
6. Harming Relationships: Constantly bragging about spirituality can strain relationships with friends, family, or colleagues who may not share the same beliefs or who may feel alienated by the perceived self-righteousness.
7. Focus on External Validation: Seeking validation or approval from others through bragging about spirituality can distract from the internal, personal journey that spirituality often entails. True spiritual growth is often about inner transformation rather than external validation.

It is so important to be graceful and compassionate when sharing your story. Speak with love and kindness. Listen. It is so important to listen, AND THEN speak. Just because you have achieved a level of spirituality, doesn't mean that you are better than others. It's important as a spiritual being to always be humble. This doesn't just apply to spiritual people; it applies to ALL people. This world gets in the way of our humility. The light in this world has dimmed because ego rules the roost. If we took a step back and tried to be humbler, we could lighten the fuck out of this world and be a prosperous people.

Ladybugs, also known as ladybirds in some parts of the world, hold various spiritual significances in different cultures and belief systems. Here are some of the common spiritual meanings associated with ladybugs:

1. Good Luck and Protection: Ladybugs are often considered symbols of good luck and protection. Many cultures believe that having a ladybug land on you or your property is a sign of impending good fortune and protection from harm.
2. Divine Grace: In Christianity, the ladybug is sometimes seen as a symbol of divine grace. The red color of its wings is associated with the red cloak of the Virgin Mary, and the seven black spots are said to represent her seven joys and seven sorrows.
3. Love and Relationships: Ladybugs are sometimes seen as symbols of love and romance. In some cultures, it is believed that if a ladybug lands on you, it signifies that love will soon come into your life or that your current relationship will improve.
4. Spiritual Connection: Ladybugs are often associated with spiritual awakening and transformation. Seeing a ladybug may be interpreted as a sign that you are on the right spiritual path or that you need to pay more attention to your spiritual journey.
5. Manifestation and Wishes: In some belief systems, ladybugs are seen as bringers of wishes and manifestations. It is said that if you make a wish when a ladybug lands on you and then release it unharmed, your wish will come true.
6. Letting Go of Fear: Ladybugs are sometimes seen as symbols of letting go of fear and worry. Their bright colors and gentle nature can remind people to release anxiety and trust in the process of life.
7. Renewal and Rebirth: Ladybugs go through a transformation process as they metamorphose from larvae to adults. This metamorphosis is often seen as a symbol of renewal, rebirth, and personal growth.
8. Balance and Harmony: The symmetry and balance of a ladybug's appearance can symbolize the importance of finding balance and harmony in one's life.
9. Motherhood and Fertility: In some cultures, ladybugs are associated with motherhood and fertility. Their role in protecting crops from pests is seen as a metaphor for nurturing and protecting one's family.
   
   

It's important to note that the spiritual significance of ladybugs can vary greatly from one culture and belief system to another. People may interpret their encounters with ladybugs in different ways based on their individual beliefs and experiences. Ultimately, the significance of a ladybug in one's life can be a highly personal and meaningful experience.

If ladybugs happen to be your spirit animal, you can expect a unique spiritual bond between you and the ladybug. Not only will they be flocking to you, but they will also provide you with special spiritual messages.

The autumn equinox, also known as the fall equinox, occurs around September 21st or 22nd in the Northern Hemisphere and around March 20th or 21st in the Southern Hemisphere. It is a significant astronomical event marking the transition from summer to autumn in the Northern Hemisphere and from winter to spring in the Southern Hemisphere.

​Symbolically, the autumn equinox carries various meanings and cultural significance:

1. Balance and Equilibrium: The term "equinox" itself comes from the Latin words "aequus" (equal) and "nox" (night), emphasizing the nearly equal duration of day and night during this time. Symbolically, it represents a balance between light and darkness, highlighting the harmony and equilibrium in nature. This balance is often associated with themes of inner balance, harmony, and reflection in one's life.
2. Harvest and Abundance: In many cultures, the autumn equinox is closely tied to the harvest season. It marks the time when crops are traditionally gathered, and it's a symbol of abundance, prosperity, and the rewards of hard work throughout the year. It is a time of gratitude for the Earth's bountiful gifts.
3. Change and Transformation: Autumn itself is a season of change, as the vibrant greens of summer foliage give way to the rich hues of red, orange, and yellow leaves. The falling leaves represent the cycle of life, death, and rebirth. This season encourages reflection on the impermanence of life and the cyclical nature of existence.
4. Letting Go: As trees shed their leaves, the autumn equinox symbolizes the act of letting go of things that no longer serve us. It can be a time for individuals to release negative energy, old habits, or emotional baggage, much like nature releases its leaves.
5. Celebration of Nature: Many cultures celebrate the autumn equinox as a time to connect with nature, pay homage to the Earth's cycles, and honor the changing seasons. Rituals and festivals often involve outdoor gatherings, feasting on seasonal foods, and expressing gratitude for the Earth's abundance.
6. Spiritual and Mystical Significance: Some spiritual and mystical traditions view the autumn equinox as a powerful time for introspection, meditation, and connecting with one's inner self. It can be seen as a time for spiritual growth, enlightenment, and a deeper connection to the natural world.
7. Astrological Significance: In astrology, the autumn equinox marks the entry of the Sun into the sign of Libra (in the Northern Hemisphere), symbolizing themes of balance, justice, and relationships.
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Overall, the symbolism of the autumn equinox varies across cultures and personal beliefs, but it generally revolves around themes of balance, abundance, change, and reflection. It's a time to appreciate the beauty of nature's transformations and the cyclical nature of life.

The spiritual significance of deer varies across different cultures and belief systems, but there are some common themes that can be found in many traditions around the world. Deer are often seen as symbols of grace, gentleness, and spirituality. Here are some aspects of the spiritual significance of deer in various cultures:

1. Native American Traditions: In many Native American cultures, deer are seen as powerful symbols of intuition and sensitivity. They are believed to be messengers, often carrying messages from the spirit world to the human world. The white-tailed deer, in particular, is highly regarded in many tribes and is associated with qualities like alertness and awareness.
2. Celtic Traditions: In Celtic mythology, deer were often associated with the forest and were seen as magical creatures that could move between the physical and spiritual realms. The stag, with its impressive antlers, was a symbol of nobility and leadership.
3. Buddhism: In Buddhism, deer are associated with the story of the Buddha's first sermon in the deer park at Sarnath. It is said that when the Buddha delivered his teachings, a group of deer gathered to listen, symbolizing the idea that all beings, regardless of their species, can attain enlightenment.
4. Christianity: In Christian symbolism, deer are sometimes associated with longing and thirst for God. This stems from verses in the Bible, such as Psalm 42:1, which states, "As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God."
5. Shintoism: In Shintoism, the native religion of Japan, deer are considered sacred and are protected in many shrines and parks. The deer in Nara Park, for example, are believed to be messengers of the gods.
6. Chinese Culture: In Chinese culture, deer are often associated with longevity and good fortune. They are sometimes depicted alongside the Taoist god of longevity, Shou, and are believed to bring blessings and happiness.
7. Dream Symbolism: In dream symbolism, seeing a deer can be interpreted as a message to pay attention to your intuition, grace, and gentleness. It may also symbolize a period of spiritual growth or a need to connect with your inner self.
8. Astrology: In astrology, the constellation known as the "Deer" or "Sagittarius" is associated with the centaur, a mythical creature that is part human and part horse. It is often associated with themes of exploration, wisdom, and spiritual pursuits.

Overall, the spiritual significance of deer often centers on their qualities of grace, intuition, and connection to nature. They serve as reminders to connect with our inner selves, embrace gentleness and sensitivity, and seek a deeper understanding of the spiritual aspects of life. The specific interpretation of deer symbolism can vary widely depending on cultural and individual beliefs.