Handling ghosting, which is when someone abruptly stops communicating with you or disappears from your life, can be emotionally challenging.
Here are some steps to help you navigate this situation:
Earlier this year, I was ghosted by someone I had fallen in love with. The relationship was toxic from the beginning, but I had 'love goggles' on and did not see what was happening in front of me. This same person cheated on me. It was a painful heartbreak. Instead of wallowing, I poured into my own cup. I began a self-care journey, which consisted of clay masks, sheet masks, foot masks, pedicures, dinners, movies, popcorn, and the occasional glass of Merlot. I processed my emotions and worked through them. Over time, I was able to get over her and move forward with my life. I am currently in an amazing relationship, and it never would have happened if I hadn't poured into my own cup.
While my ex did me wrong, I harbor no ill will toward her. While I have forgiven her, I did not forgive her for her benefit. I forgave her for me, so I can be free. When you don't forgive someone, they have power over you, and that grows the longer they have that power. The only way to reclaim that power is to forgive them. I'm telling you, it's worth it! Finally forgiving someone who has done you wrong is like taking an energy shot. It brings you to life. It raises your vibration. It's a beautiful feeling!
Trust me, I know it's hard to forgive someone who ghosted you. You want bad things to happen to them. The one thing I can tell you is that you need to reclaim your power. The person that ghosted you lacks a soul, which is why they need your energy. Take that energy back and watch them sink themselves. God/Karma/Life can take care of people far better than we can. Reclaim that power, and move forward!
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